Frequently Asked Questions
Getting Started & Practical Questions
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Many people wonder whether their struggles are “serious enough” for therapy. In reality, therapy isn’t only for moments of crisis. People often seek therapy when they feel stuck in patterns, overwhelmed by stress, or curious about understanding themselves more deeply.
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The first step is a free consultation. We’ll talk briefly about what’s bringing you to therapy, you can ask any questions you have about how I work, and we’ll see whether it feels like a good fit. You can schedule a consultation here.
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Individual sessions are $250 for 45 minutes, and couples sessions are $280 for 55 minutes. A limited number of sliding scale spots are available, so please ask if cost is a concern.
I’m an out-of-network provider, which means I don’t bill insurance directly. Many PPO and POS plans reimburse 60–80% of the fee once your deductible is met. You can check your out-of-network benefits using this Mentaya benefits checker.
Why out-of-network?
Working outside insurance means your care isn’t shaped by an insurance company. Your insurer doesn’t set limits on how many sessions you have or review your treatment. If you pay privately without seeking reimbursement, no diagnosis or clinical information goes to your insurer at all. If you do submit for reimbursement, your superbill includes a diagnosis code, which we can talk about together.How does reimbursement work?
Your card is charged automatically after each session.
At the end of each month, I send you a superbill, an itemized receipt your insurer needs.
You submit it through your insurance company’s website or app.
Your insurer reimburses you directly for the covered amount.
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You can instantly check your out-of-network benefits using this Mentaya benefits checker. This is a free estimate and can help you understand what therapy may cost after reimbursement.
If you prefer to reach out to your insurance provider on your own, you can Download My Insurance Call Script Here to ensure you get the most out of your out-of-network benefits.
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I provide online therapy for individuals, couples, and teens throughout New York State and Florida.
For those in NYC, I offer in-person, virtual, and hybrid sessions. To maintain clinical consistency, we will typically establish one of these as our primary modality. Many of the people I work with are located in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens.
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Most clients meet weekly for 45-minute sessions. Meeting at the same time each week gives the work continuity, so we can build on what came up last time instead of starting over.
For people interested in deeper psychoanalytic work, I also offer sessions two or more times a week. Meeting more often lets us stay closer to what’s happening as it unfolds. We can talk about what frequency makes sense for you.
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Yes. Everything discussed in therapy is confidential. I am legally and ethically bound to protect your privacy. There are limited exceptions required by law — if there is a risk of serious harm to you or someone else, or in cases of suspected abuse of a child or vulnerable adult. These exceptions are rare, and I will always discuss confidentiality with you at the start of our work together so you know exactly where the boundaries are.
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Yes. I work with clients across a range of backgrounds, and I have particular familiarity with the family dynamics and cultural expectations that often come up in Jewish and/or Middle Eastern households — generational guilt, conditional approval, and pressure around achievement or tradition among them.
What to Expect in Therapy
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We start with a 15-minute intro call to see whether working together feels like a good fit. In the first few sessions, I'll want to understand what brought you in, but there's no questionnaire I'm trying to get through. I'm interested in your history, your relationships, how you relate to your own thoughts and feelings, and what you notice in yourself. We'll get a sense of what it's like to work together along the way, and there's plenty of room for feedback on how the process is going.
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Understanding your patterns matters, but many people find that insight alone doesn’t change them. You can know exactly why you react the way you do and still find yourself reacting that way. Change tends to happen when we work with what’s underneath: the feelings you’ve learned to avoid, what your body is holding, and what comes up in our relationship as we work together. Read more about why talking isn’t always enough.
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While we talk, I might ask what you notice in your body as you describe something, or whether there’s a way your body wants to respond to a feeling. Sometimes we slow down and stay with a sensation instead of moving past it. Nothing is forced, and you can always say no. Learn more about somatic therapy.
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Sometimes, but it isn't the main thing I do. Most people have already had plenty of advice and still feel stuck. My aim is to help you understand what's driving the pattern, so the choices that fit you become clearer from the inside. I'm not a blank slate, though. I'll share what I notice, ask questions, and offer suggestions when they feel appropriate.
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I don’t take sides or decide who’s right. Most couples come in caught in a cycle where each partner’s way of protecting themselves sets off the other’s, and both end up feeling alone. We slow that cycle down so you can each see what’s happening underneath the argument, and start reaching for each other differently. Learn more about couples therapy.
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It can be normal to feel temporarily more emotional or unsettled when starting therapy. Talking about difficult experiences or feelings may bring things to the surface that have been avoided or suppressed. Over time, working through these experiences often leads to greater clarity, stability, and relief.
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Therapy often works gradually rather than through sudden breakthroughs. Signs that therapy is working may include becoming more aware of your emotions, recognizing patterns in relationships, responding differently to stress, or feeling more able to tolerate difficult feelings. You may not always feel better right away, but over time many people notice increased clarity, flexibility, and self-understanding.
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There’s no set length. Some people come for a few months to work through something specific. Others stay longer because they want to understand and change patterns that go back further. We’ll talk about it together along the way, and you’re always free to bring it up.
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It’s something we decide together. Often it becomes clear when the things that brought you in feel more manageable, or when you notice you’re relating to yourself and others differently. Ending is part of the work, so rather than stopping abruptly, we’ll take time to reflect on what’s changed.
If you have questions about logistics, insurance reimbursement, or are wondering whether working together might be a good fit, you’re welcome to reach out for a brief consultation.
Not sure how much therapy might cost? If you plan to use out-of-network benefits, you can estimate your reimbursement in about a minute using the benefits checker below: